Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Crunch Time

Tim turned in our 30 day notice today for our home.

This makes me sad and anxious.

No matter how I feel though, it's happening.  Much quicker than I would like it.  And during the holidays, no less, which seems to make it even more chaotic with emotions running wild.

Tim finally received his orders about a week and a half ago, but since we aren't on them we are still waiting with bated breath for the call to let us know his amended orders are ready so we can get the rest of the process moving.  I know I am to "not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present my requests to God.", but it still isn't easy for the planner that is in me!

I NEED DATES!!!!

It would be nice to know when we are shipping our car.  It would be nice to know when the movers are coming.  It would be nice to know if we get to go when Tim goes.

The thing is...even without that information, our time here is coming to an end.  Our 30 days notice is in, and whether or not we go when Tim goes..we only have about four weeks left here.

With it being the holidays, I'm trying my best to keep it simple while still making it something special and memorable for the boys.  This will be our third year without being able to decorate our own tree.  (Not that we have a tree to decorate, but...)  Even without the move, it is our hearts desire to stress the focus of Christmas on our Savior and not on all the excess...but I've even been struggling with it in my own heart the last few days.  I'm having trouble finding the balance.  Should I really be sad that I don't get to decorate?  That we probably won't be "stable" and have any wrapped gifts or stockings?  I know that those things are not what is most important but it is a battle.

So, with the encouragement/challenge of a few articles here and here, I'm trying my best to "choose the best and letting go of the rest to ensure a peaceful Christmas season."  Baking is still on the list.  It will help me clear out my cabinets before the move and make some goodies for our trash man and mail man! Thanks to Pinterest I found this advent calendar that we are going to start.  Ryan has also been asking for a snow globe, so I think we might give this tutorial a go.  

Now, just to continue to pray for peace, and for the Lord to direct my steps in choosing our activites for the next few weeks. 



Thursday, November 17, 2011

I Took the Challenge!


Are there any handmade gifts on your list of things to do for Christmas this year?  Why not make two? 

I know a lot of times I set out to make one and end up making two or more just because I have the extra material.  (It's kind of a pet peeve of mine to have scraps.  Even if I finished the project I set out to to begin with, any excess material nags at me to be created into the same. 

Weakness in this: If the material I have creates the one I needed plus 1/2 of another one, it's likely I'll go out and buy more material so I can have an even 2 or 3.  Crazy.  I know.

Plus side in this:  I have homemade gifts laying around ready to be gifted!!!

So I have my gift ready and I'll share pictures in a few days once I figure out who/where I'm donating it to!

If you want to take the challenge, want some more details, or need some inspiration you can visit here or here!  If you decide to participate, make sure to let me know!  I'd love to see what you make!!

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

So the ARMY says....



we're moving to Germany!

Insert the "AAhhhh!!!" of your choice!  Crazy or excited.....maybe some of both.

Some of mine have been...
Are you kidding me?!
You're joking right?
OMG!
How exciting!
Can we escape to Mexico?!
Where did that come from?
God's plan is best.
It's too soon.
What an opportunity!
That's really far from family.
 Oh, the simplicity!!!!!
This could be the best thing ever!

When we moved here (almost) two years ago, we knew it would be a short assignment.  Tim was assigned to a unit, specifically to deploy, that really only operates overseas.  Tim was assigned to the same unit for his 2nd deployment so we kind of had an idea of how they work.  Tim's deployment ended in June and they normally have you headed to your next duty station within 90 days after being stateside.  We were expecting to receive orders back in May.  Needless to say, we've been waiting a while.  And technically, we still don't have them.  :) 

We first learned of the assignment at the end of August.  We were blown away!  Tim took a few weeks trying to track down answers and trying to get it changed.  He even looked into his options if he choose to deny the orders.  He was pretty much told, "You're going."  It took a few weeks for the news to settle.  There are a lot of mixed emotions involved.

At first all we were told was that we were going to Germany.  A few days later we got word of a unit, which made us think we were really going to Italy.  Then we were told there is a Battalion in Bamburg, Germany.  So Bamburg is where we are headed.

The reason we are going to Germany is because Tim is Airborne.  He hasn't jumped since he originally got his wings, but apparently since he has them he's required to serve in an Airborne unit for a minimum of 3 years.  There are limited posts with Airborne units, so to Germany we go!
A few weeks later we were informed that his report date would be early January 2011.  About a four month window at that point.  (Panic somewhat ensues!)

At this point, everything has still been word of mouth and official orders are no where in sight.  Part of that problem is because Tim's current enlistment ends in 2 1/2 years.  A tour to Germany, with family in tow, is a minimum of 3 years.

Skip ahead to October 3rd and Tim signed the paperwork accepting his orders and to extend his enlistment to the 3 year period.

Skip ahead to November and we are wondering where our orders are?!!  You can't do a whole lot without the orders.  Everything is kind of on hold without them.  We can't even turn in our 30 days notice to our rental company without the orders.

Skip ahead to last Monday, November 7th, and the new guy informed Tim that the reason he hasn't received his orders yet is because the paperwork he signed back on October 3rd was never turned in.  In fact, he found it wadded up in a ball in the back of the desk drawer from the previous employee.  :)  Love!! Sarcasm Central.  

Thankfully, the new guy has the paperwork turned in so hopefully we will see orders within a week!  1 hurdle jumped!
We also found out last week that we could go ahead and get our passport process started.  We thought we had to have his orders to start that too...thankfully not!  Hurdle number 2!

While at the passport office though we were informed of hurdle #3.  We, the family, have to have an EFMP Screening completed.  It's pretty much a doctor's appointment where they look over your medical records to make sure none of the family members have any extreme medical conditions that can't be provided for overseas.  The hurdle part of this is that we, the family, can't be added to Tim's orders until we are "approved" after the screening.  The ARMY won't approve shipment of household goods until Tim's orders show that it is an accompanied tour.  So...we can't get plane tickets, ship our car (which we should be doing in the next two weeks to beat his report date), set up packing day, etc. until we are added to the orders.  

As soon as we left the passport office I called to set up our appointments.  I got the first available appointment, but that was still two weeks out.  After the appointment it will take another week for it to be approved and then hopefully we can have Tim's orders amended to an accompanied tour and get things going.  So right now we aren't looking to get the correct orders till the first week of December.  Hopefully.

Which leaves us to wonder...how in the world are we going to get out of here in time?!  We were originally expecting to have our van shipped the beginning of December and our house packed up by mid December.  We just don't see how it's going to work.  So...hurdle #4...Tim is going to fill out some more paperwork this week asking for a delay in his report date.  I don't know if they will approve his request or how long they will give him, but I'm praying!  If they don't, there's that chance they will make him go ahead of us and the boys and I will have to follow later.  Definitely NOT something either of us want to do!

I'll do my best to share some of my other feelings on the move in a later post, but we would really appreciate your prayers in the meantime for all of the things that have to take place in what seems like a very short amount of time!





Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Photo Shoot {Ryan's Kindergarten Pics}

School pictures are expensive!  Ryan came home with the notice about two weeks ago saying that school pictures were coming up.  The cheapest packet was about $11.00.  For that $11.00 I think you got about 3 pictures.  In order for us to have gotten enough pictures for all the Grandparents I probably would have had to pay between $40/$50!!!  No thanks!!!!!

We knew both Grandmas would still appreciate some Kindergarten pictures of Ryan so we opted to take our own.  







Much better than the basic school pose with the green or blue background!

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Photo Shoot {Blaine: 1 Year}

I managed to get a few minutes this week, and with Tim's help, I was able to get a few pictures of Blaine for his 1st Birthday.  I think this is one of the hardest ages to photograph because they are always on the go (especially when we head outside!).
 


 Not sure what this look is....


His goofy little smile...


So stinkn' cute!..




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He is currently weighing in at 24 lbs and is 29.5 inches tall!  In the last month he's gone from 12 month clothes, to 18 months (which are currently tight), and is currently in 24 months!  He is still working on the whole walking thing.  He hasn't picked it up as quickly as we thought he would, but that's ok. 

Monday, November 7, 2011

Photo Shoot {Ben & Shelly}

Last year I was involved in the Steering Team for our MOPS (Moms of Preschoolers) Group at our church and I had the privilege of working with Shelly as a co-coordinator for our craft activities for the group.  Shelly was also about 1 month ahead of me with her 2nd child, Ethan.  I offered to do their family pictures back in March/April and we FINALLY got together to get it done a few weeks ago!

Meet Ben, Shelly, Caleb, & Ethan...







We are so blessed to have met Ben & Shelly!  Ben is also the teacher for our Connection Group at church and he does a great job at challenging us to a deeper relationship with God.  They have a great heart to serve others and to raise their kids in admonition of the Lord.  Oh...and did I mention that Shelly is an A.MAZ.ING. cook!  Anything she touches is GOLDEN!!!  

So glad we finally got together for these Shelly!

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Trunk or Treat!

Last year was the first time I had ever heard of Trunk or Treat.  Our church hosts one every year. Have you ever heard of it?  Instead of trick-or-treating door to door, a whole bunch of people park their decorated cars in a specified area and hand out candy.  It's such a great alternative!  Our church also has bounce houses and other games for the event.  We also use it as one of our big community outreaches every year.  I believe last year they had over 1,000 people attend and from what I've heard there were even more this year!

Last year Tim was home on R&R and I had just had Blaine so we didn't volunteer for the event.  It was inspiring to see every one's creativity last year and we definitely didn't want to miss out on the fun this year!  In my blog roaming I came across this SUPER EASY tutorial on costumes for The Incredibles.  It took a little convincing, but Tim agreed!  It was a lot of fun to be able to do a whole family theme!

The boys hanging out eating their pizza before all the excitement starts!



SO glad I brought the play pin for Blaine to hang out in.  And I'm pretty sure he was every one's favorite!
 

 
Candy in hand, ready to pass it out!!!


Some of our friends.  Little House on the Prairie!

Wizard of Oz!


There were SO MANY good ones and I of course didn't get any pictures.  :(  It was a little hectic there for a bit.  There was R2D2 and Darth Vador, Flo from Progressive Insurance (she was selling Jesus though), Angry Birds, Pirates, etc, etc.  I didn't even walk around to see them all.  Wishing I had of course!

And since I didn't feel like I got any good pictures of us, we all dressed up again the following night and took some in our back yard.  It was a lot of fun and a fun way to get the boys involved in serving others first!








Selling Sheep

  
On the drive to church this past Sunday morning, the story of Jesus entering the temple and finding people doing business came to mind.  It was soon after Jesus entered Jerusalem and the week prior to his crucifixion.  You can find the story in Matthew 21, Mark 11, Luke 19, and John 2.  Below is the excerpt from John 2.


13 When it was almost time for the Jewish Passover, Jesus went up to Jerusalem. 14 In the temple courts he found people selling cattle, sheep and doves, and others sitting at tables exchanging money. 15 So he made a whip out of cords, and drove all from the temple courts, both sheep and cattle; he scattered the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables. 16 To those who sold doves he said, “Get these out of here! Stop turning my Father’s house into a market!” 


This story seems so easy to understand, but I highly doubt that you could walk up to a local church and find farmers lined up outside the front doors trying to sell their sheep or cattle.  (Of course that's partly due to the fact that we don't need an animal to sacrifice at the alter anymore because of the ultimate sacrifice that God made by sending his son, Jesus, to die for us!) 

Every story has an application, though.  How in the world could this relate to me?  I don't plan on selling any sheep anytime soon.  Not that I even have any to sell. 

But...there is (unfortunately) PLENTY of other "business" that I take care of at church.  I deliver things to friends, I get things from friends, I track down certain people at church so we can talk over certain upcoming events, etc.  I can think of TONS of business that goes on every Sunday!

Why do I choose to do all of this on Sunday mornings/Wednesday nights!?!  

Part of it is because it's easy.  Everyone is in one place.  You can kill seven birds with one stone!  You can get results!  My multi-tasking personality LOVES that you can accomplish so much in such a small amount of time!


Yet, that doesn't change the fact that I am GUILTY!  My mind and my heart has not been focused on what it needs to be.  
 It's hard because we do live about 30 minutes from the church and all of our friends.  Our finances are tight (whose aren't!), so we have tried to limit the amount of trips we make to the next town to keep our gas cost down.  A good intent but I think it has also made us try to squeeze as much as possible into our Sunday morning/Wednesday evening trips. 

 I've noticed the last few weeks that when I have all this business to take care of at church, my mind is not focused on what it is meant to be.  I still listen, and I participate, but I tend to be distracted by the need to take care of business!

Now don't get me wrong.....I still plan on talking to people when I go to church!  ;)

I believe God started preparing my heart for this realization a few months ago.  (Isn't he SO generous to ease us into seeing what He sees sometimes!)

Based on the saying, "What you put out is what you get back", our Pastor, in his weekly email, challenged us to consider how we were preparing our hearts to receive the message each time we attended.  A few weeks later in our Connection Group (AKA Sunday School) we discussed church/God and the level of priority it took in our lives/schedules.  Tim and I have definitely made the outward commitment to place church as a priority in our lives.  There is never a question as to if we should attend church on Sunday or to stay home.  The answer is always to go.  Along with other services.  Yet, I know we need to work on preparing our hearts throughout the week to receive the message that God wants us to hear.

 It has been on my heart for the last few months and I have been seeking Him and asking him to show me how I can better prepare my heart for Sunday mornings.  I think he gave me the answer a few days ago.  :)

So...my plan for now is to really limit how much business I plan for Sunday mornings/Wednesday nights, and try to schedule other times to accomplish what needs to be done.  That might mean an extra trip, and extra gas, but I believe where the Lord leads he provides.  It will probably mean more phone calls/emails and that also will require good time management.

Some might think this is crazy, or even extreme; yet the Holy Spirit speaks to us all in different ways.  I remember in Middle School the gentle urging to not spit out my gum on the sidewalk/grass anymore, but to always put it in the trash.  Crazy! you say.  I know.  Yet, He also whispered the same request to a dear mentor.  ;)

I have to ask....How much business do you do at church?  Is it distracting you from what God wants you to hear?  In what ways do you prepare your heart to receive the message when you attend?